Thursday, November 28, 2019

7 ways to make immediate success your only option

7 ways to make immediate success your only option7 ways to make immediate success your only optionChange doesnt happen untilit musthappen. Inner drive is far from sufficient its failumineszenzdiode you many times in the past.Necessity is the mother of invention.If you really want to change your life, you need to createconditions of necessity.Herein lies the new science of transformation.Follow Ladders on FlipboardFollow Ladders magazines on Flipboard covering Happiness, Productivity, Job Satisfaction, Neuroscience, and moraYou need to shock your system. To quote Napoleon Hill,A good shock often helps the brain that has been atrophied by habit.Why does your system need to be shocked?Everything in your world wants to remain in homeostasis. You need to shatter your subconscious patterns and disrupt the homeostasis around you. This will repel the people keeping you stuckverzierung and attract others who will help you evolve.Radical transformation can happenvery quickly.But it requires bo ld action that reframes your subconscious patterns. Once those beliefs have been upgraded, your world changes immediately and dramatically. As Charles Haanel, considered to be the father of modern self-improvement said,Remember that no matter what the difficulty is, no matter where it is, no matter who is affected, you have no patient but yourself you have nothing to do but convince yourself of the truth which you desire to see manifest.So how do you shock your subconscious system?How do you convince yourself of the truth which you desire to happen?By the end of this article, youll know precisely how1. Invest In Yourself (and your relationships)If you dont pay, you probably wont pay attention. Joe PolishYour level of investment reflects your level of commitment.When you invest in something, you begin to wrap your identity around that thing. The more invested you are, the more you see yourselfas that thing.If you invest in a cause, youll become incredibly committed to that cause. So much so that motivation is no longer an issue. Your level of investment compels you to doeverything in your powerto advance the cause.Want evangelists? Get people to invest more into what youre doing.Want to become an evangelist yourself? Then invest more.What about yourself?How invested are in you in yourself? Said Jim Rohn,Work hard at your job and you can make a living. Work hard on yourself and you can make a fortune.Very few people invest in themselves. Sure, they may buy a book or occasionally get themselves a massage. But again, their subconscious beliefs are limiting. You get in life what you subconsciously believe you deserve. As Dr. David Hawkins explains in his book,Letting GoIf we have a small view of ourselves, then what we deserve is poverty. And our unconscious will see to it that we have that actuality.The more you invest in yourself, the more committed youll be to yourself and your own success. The more invested you are, the less entitled you feel. The more you beco me a giver and not a taker. And the world awards the giver.By investing big in yourself (and you are, without question, your greatest asset) you shock your subconscious system. You forcibly tell yourself,I am worth it. What I want matters.2. Put Yourself In The Right EnvironmentThe most creative ideas arent going to come while sitting in front of your monitor. - Scott BirnbaumIn our individualistic society, we often fail to appreciate how dramatically we are influenced by our surroundings.But who you are is the product of your environment. If you married one person, youd be and become a different person than if you married someone else.To change your environment is to change you. Your possibilities are shaped by your context.If you want BIGGER and BETTER ideas, you need to put yourself into different types of environments from which you typically operate. The best and most innovative ideas literally cant percolate is most environments.You need an environment that puts you into a pe ak state, where your phantasie is able to run wild. Where you feel motivated and inspired. Where your negative and limiting thoughts are squelched by theempowering emotionsyoure experiencing.Emotions always precede thought. Hence, you need an environment that facilitates specific types of emotions, which then will allow you to create incredible visions, ideas, and strategies.How do you get into such environments?You invest in yourself and your relationships. Herein lies a fundamental truth that is largely misunderstoodSupply follows demand.When the demand is great, the supply will show up in some form or another. So, if youneedto succeed, if youmustbe around specific people, thenthe universe will conspire to make it happen.It cant be optional for you. It must be done. To you, it must be truth. Only then will the demand be great enough subconsciously to produce the desired result.This highlights another misconception that keeps people in poverty. Rather than living within your means, you should 1) DECIDE what you want, and then 2) FIGURE OUT the means of attaining what you want. As Hall of Fame football coach, Bill Walsh said,When your why is strong enough you will figure out how3. Set 10X Goals While Youre In A PeakStateA truly committed decision is the force that can change your life.A truly committed decision has to be unshakable no matter what happens. Even if the stock market collapses, your girlfriend dumps you, or your friends think you went crazy. Tony RobbinsFew people make committed decisions. Most people, actually, have a very bad relationship with commitment. And because they are bad with commitment, they have low confidence. You cant have confidence without commitment, because you cant have confidence if you dont trust yourself.Most people lie to themselves several times per day.They tell themselves they will do something, and then watch themselves not do it. Over and over and over. Mahatma Gandhi said,To believe in something, and not to live it, i s dishonest.Making committed decisions is best done in specific environments. You want to be outside of your gebtheit environment.You want to be in a place and in a state of mind that CREATES a very powerful commitment. You want to create your commitment while youre in a peak state. The level of emotion that creates your commitment reflects the quality and height of your trajectory.If you make a committed decision while in a weak or mediocre frame of mind, you set yourself on a mediocre and lowly path.While in an elevated state, you want to set goals SO BIG that they scare you. You want to set goals that you cannot currently fathom HOW theyll be completed. You need to set goals that require faith to achieve them (not necessarily a religious faith - but a firm expectation and hope of a future outcome).I recently had such an experience. While I was at a mastermind event, I heard a talk about 10Xing the price of your products and services.The talk, coupled with the environment, facili tated wild imagination within me. I began to think of an online course I was preparing to sell. The course was originally $200. But I decided to make it $1,000.When I told some of my clients about my new plans for the course, most of the people were excited. With the elevated price would come elevated services and outcomes.However, one of my clients barked back at me,How dare you increase the price by five times? Youre not five times better than you were last year.He was right.I wasnt five times better. And I never would be, until I created that expectation, both for myself and for others.It was by charging five times more that I became five times better.You never pre-qualify for success. You qualify yourself through the process of taking on something bigger than youve ever done before.To quote famed public speaker, Kyle MaynardThe worst advice Ive ever been given was to not increase the fee I charged to give a keynote speech. I was told I would price myself out of the market, I did nt have enough recent media coverage to compete against well-known speakers, blah, blah, blah. I decided to raise my price anyway incrementally at first, then I doubled it. Now I have twice as many inquiries, and people even negotiate with me less. I wish Id done it earlier. Its given me much more freedom.What about you?Is your vision poverty-stricken?4. Recruit A Team OfGeniusesYou are really not in business until you hire your first person. - Barbara CorcoranWhen I decided I was going to create a much bigger and more compelling online course, I knew I couldnt do it myself. The vision was way to big for me.So I decided to hire the best people I could to make the vision happen. I offered to pay them a percentage of the total sales. Said Stephen Covey,Synergy is what happens when one positiv one equals ten or a hundred or even a thousand Its the profound result when two or more respectful human beings determine to go beyond their preconceived ideas to meet a great challenge.Youll ne verfeelready to take on big challenges. Subconsciously, going bigger is out of your reach. So you must act bigger (and before) you feel ready. You must act in such a way that you shock and reshape your subconscious patterns. Your identity isnt what determines your behavior. Rather, it is your behavior that determines your identity.By making bold and powerful behaviors, you reshape your identity and your life.5. Create High Expectations For Those Around You (and yourself)Winners make a habit of manufacturing their own positive expectations in advance of the event. Brian TracyWith the help of my new team, I was able to create the most compelling and powerful launch Ive ever done. Moreover, I was able to upgrade and re-conceptualize the entire online course. It evolved, and I evolved. It was much bigger and would be far more useful to my clients.The power of the launch and the set-up of the coursecreated a powerful culturewithin the new group of students. The energy is palpable. The ex pectations for success are high.6. Create A Demand So Intense That Youre Forced To Respond PowerfullyMake the mental image. Make it clear, distinct, perfect hold it firmly the ways and means will develop supply will follow the demand you will be led to do the right thing at the right time and in the right way. Earnest Desire will bring about Confident Expectation, and this in turn must be reinforced by Firm Demand. - Charles HaanelGiven the magnitude and quality of the launch, there was an insane response. We started getting hundreds of emails daily from people, seeking more information about the course.At the time, I didnt have my own personal assistant. So my friend who was helping me with the launch had his assistant field all of the emails for a week.During that week, it became clear that Id need to hire my own full-time personal assistant just to get through the launch. But also,given the new reality we had created - in making the course much bigger and more expansive - Id n eed an assistant to help me execute the new vision. It was too big for me to handle on my own.We had created a situation of extreme demand. Now, we needed help. Within a few days of searching, I found a brilliant new assistant. Again, the subconscious belief system becomes shattered. New ideas begin to emerge within the realm of the new environment being created. As famed historian, Will Duran said,I think the ability of the average man could be doubled if it were demanded, if the situation demanded.Bigger and bolder vision begins to take shape as the new situation unfolds.Dan Sullivan, the founder of Strategic Coach, has said that for someone to maximize their potential, they need to outsource everything that isnt their unique ability. Others have similarly said that you should ONLY do that which will make the biggest impact. Only do your super-power, and have other people do the rest.You need to put yourself in a position where you cannot do it yourself. It will be your tendency t o procrastinate hiring other people to help you with the logistics. The longer you wait, the less progress you make. Once you have other people who can handle EVERYTHING except your super-powers, your connections, and your vision, your success will 10X or 100X very, very quickly.7. Watch As Your World Reshapes Itself To Match The NewYouUntil one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness. Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in ones favour all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamt would have come his way. - William Hutchison MurrayWhen you act boldly in the spirit of 10X committed decisions, you absolutely will disrupt the status- quo.The environment holding your current reality together will be shattered - like shoving a sharp wedge into a glass structure. All the pieces will fly everywhere.Chaos will ensue.Everything will be trying to force you back to your comfort zone.But the damage will already be done. The intense decision will have been set in motion. Ripples are now spreading and making waves. Youll haveactedpowerfully, and you cant take that action back. Its no longer just ideas swirling around in your head. But youve now put them out into the world - where real consequences are now arising.Your new decision, and thus your new reality and identity will not be well-received by some. In fact, the illusion that has long-since been your relationship with certain people will shatter. The new you will no longer be acceptable to some. Youll push their buttons too far. They wont be able to keep the act up any longer.It will become obvious that your relationship with certain people wasnt real. And now, youl l repel these people from your life.There may be some seriously harsh consequences to doing this.Business could fail.Significant relationships could end.But whatever chaos comes from making the bold and new decision needed to happen. The glass house you had created around you to keep yourself safe and stuck needed to be destroyed.Youre willing to face the consequences.Youre willing to seemingly take a few momentary steps backward because you know that in all reality, youre now moving in the direction you want to be.Youre now living at a much higher frequency, where the rate and height of results will be much better and faster anyway.Youre no longer living a lie.Youre forcing your environment to change. Forcing it to match your visions and ideals. Forcing yourself to evolve into the person you want to be.Ready toUpgrade?Ive created a cheat sheet for putting yourself into a PEAK-STATE, immediately. You follow this daily, your life will change very quickly.Get the cheat sheet hereThis article first appeared on Medium.You might also enjoyNew neuroscience reveals 4 rituals that will make you happyStrangers know your social class in the first seven words you say, study finds10 lessons from Benjamin Franklins daily schedule that will double your productivityThe worst mistakes you can make in an interview, according to 12 CEOs10 habits of mentally strong people

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